
In this episode, I sit down with Oren Hefetz - a leader who spent 16 years at the heart of Google’s global operations, yet identifies first and foremost as a historian (who wrote a book about it!), and whom I’m grateful to have as one of my best friends & colleagues.
While his track record includes launching YouTube across emerging markets and building Google’s Startup Growth Lab, our conversation dives far beneath the surface of corporate success. Oren brings a unique, grounded perspective on how we, as founders and human beings, can remain present and purposeful in a world driven by exponential technology. We explore the essential shift from traditional management to "Conscious Leadership," and why the most critical upgrade we can make isn't to our software, but to our own internal awareness.
One of the most meaningful moments of the conversation was when Oren shared a pivotal moment from a retreat in India where he confronted the defining trauma of his life—the loss of his mother at age four—on the very same day ChatGPT reached 100 million users. This convergence of deep personal healing and rapid technological evolution sparked his realization that in an "exponential age," leaders must upgrade their own internal consciousness to match the pace of external change.
Learning from the "Failure" that Led to Joining Google
Before his long tenure at Google, Oren was an entrepreneur who founded a startup specifically to compete with Google’s ad network. While he describes it as a business failure, he credits his "naive optimism" for turning that experience into a bridge to his future success. He believes that leaders who embrace their passion and stay true to their inner voice can navigate even the most disruptive setbacks.
The P.I.N.E. Framework for Modern Leaders
Oren utilizes a specific methodology to help founders and executives navigate the complexities of the modern workplace:
The Intelligence of the Three Brains
Oren & I explain that humans possess three biological "brains": the head (90 billion neurons), the heart (50,000 neurons), and the gut (half a billion neurons). While AI is rapidly commoditizing raw IQ and knowledge, the human differentiator is the ability to connect these three centers. He argues that "Conscious Leadership" is about moving beyond just the head to lead with the heart and intuition.
A Mantra for Resilience: Acknowledge Reality, Find Peace
The core of Oren’s philosophy is captured in a single mantra: "Acknowledge reality and find peace". He explains that many people tend to escape or hide from overwhelming changes in technology and politics. Instead, he advocates for a deep understanding of current reality, which allows a leader to find the inner stillness necessary to lead effectively through chaos.